When I had a similar crush, it was really because I wanted my professor's life. I’m a Realtor and stopped by his home and gave him my business card. Well, I have been debating with myself on whether or not to post this question, but I'm wondering if any of you have ever had a crush on your doctor? I can’t stop thinking about him. As long as you keep it in perspective, it's pretty harmless. HI ENA! Attractive too. female The content below was sourced from real posts on the Whisper app, the largest online community where people anonymously share real thoughts and feelings. The room is cold and all you have to cover up is a flimsy paper towel masquerading as a hospital gown. My doctor last time seemed like he was attracted to me and flirting with me but who knows i could be wrong. Login first I have a crush one of my doctors and a friend of mine has a crush on the same doctor. Also keep in mind, even if he does have a crush on you, it is morally and ethically wrong for him to get involved with a patient. I barely know the man, and he's not my type at all...so why is this happening...and how do I make it go away? We chatted a bit and he was really nice. I know he’s single. under him and discharged from his care, no longer his patient you could send him a thank you card with your phone number and ask him in the card with something like: 'I'd love to buy you coffee or a drink sometimes #123456789'. Please help. Each time I go see him, I get butterflies and nervous. I went and after explaining what I had he said I was having stress and that he would like to see me again to talk for one hour about the problems in my life in his office. It is a small surgery, local anaesthesia. I have a crush on my eye doctor. At least you are wise enough to know that it is a crush and not believe that you are "in love" Enjoy your dreams and it will fizzle out in time Someone else was supposed to be on call one day, I was in a hurry, didn't do a thing with my hair or makeup, then I saw him! I’m almost in my 30’s. He is so handsome, his personality etc. Plus he's 50 and I'm 21. so I obviously don't plan on acting on it. I Think My Doctor Has a Crush on Me, But I Don’t Want to Look Foolish By Asking. I know this is common doctor-patient crush. Enjoy your crush, it will fade after you aren't seeing him any more and you'll look back on this entire experience fondly, with a humorous anecdote about a silly crush. reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (9 April 2007): A He is in his 40s while I'm only 20, but that doesn't stop me from liking this kind, welcoming and warm-hearted man. Thanks! He's married w/ kids . at first i didn't really care or think about him that much but 5 weeks after i saw him, and i can't stop thinking about him right now! compliment him but nothing sexual. female If I had a crush on my doctor, I'd be really healthy, because I would *never* miss an appointment- so I think it would be a good thing. Okay, I would suggest asking if he has a partner (make sure you ask it in a strictly non-flirty way so he doesn't get any ideas). Get your answers by asking now. What do I do? Hubby and I have issues (most ppl do; LOL), and this doctor is also married with a child (I She was very attractive on the outside, but an inspiration on the inside too. Try not to make it cheesy. Nearly 900 CTA workers have had COVID-19; 18 of them drove the busy No. Well, here's the thing: You'll lose your doctor, whether or not he responds to your advances. reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): A I have this huge crush on my doc. But hopefully that will work, then sometime you can text him and just tell him you like him. I thought posting in here would be the best place to get advice since we're all just looking for love in this big, scary world. I see him 3x/week, but I wish it was more. I have a huge crush on my doctor. If he says yes then for all he knows it could just be a patient curious about his life in a platonic way, and if he says no then it would be obvious to him that you want him to ask you for your number. What to tell him ? and he is the nicest man ever. Final one next week and I really don't want to stop seeing him, I do want to heal of course but I want to see him outside of his cabinet, as a friend, potential boyfriend. It is unethical for a medical professional to date a patient. A friend told me he thinks it's normal to fall in love with your doctors. He has children but is no longer married. I admired her because she had gone into medicine late in life and was 36 before she qualified, and was a nurse before that. It's natural to feel attracted to someone that has taken great care of you. what do i do? Still have questions? Would it be weird to add him on Facebook? Have a crush on a Dr. McDreamy? Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. I had a crush once on a female orthopedic surgeon. He's single, only slightly older than me (about 5 years...) .. Is it ethical to switch him to a different doctor just to get the chance to find out if this current doctor is interested? I think it is mutual. If he says why just tell him. If not he doesn’t want to meet. Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended! He is about 20 years older than me(but he does not look it at all.) I just saw him today for some upper back pain I've been having. reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (9 April 2007): Already have an account? My friend/coworker told me about this site so here goes!! If you don't know yet, ask him "are you single?" I am not sure how to tell him? Facebook. yea my ob/gyn doctor as well ..omg did i have a crush on him then he moved away then 7 years later i got pregnant and had to go to another one and this Dr.was way too hott ..hotter than the last one and i had it bad for him but i was huge pregnant man the fantasies i have had about him...then he almost killed me in delivery so i never went back to him..damn my luck sucks.. Why I still feel bad? ? Is it worth it? But before that you have to know if he is single. Share 6. My sister told me he was hot so i guessed why not I was sick anyways I needed a doctor's letter. How can I do it? I got so nervous that he might recognize me that I could barely speak to him. How to let him know? lol. It wasn't really about him (though he's a good person) at all. 0 0. WaysAndHow 39,495 views By the way, can I please have your number?" If you do not have his number, to make it less awkward than randomly asking him, maybe when he fixes you up you could stand up and be like "thanks. male Twitter. With your doctor, what do you have to lose? i know he's married and he may be 15-20 yrs older than me. reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): A I value and respect him very much and don't want this to be an issue. I met by chance on the street a professor from my university and without telling him anything he told me I remember. I'm 26 .. 6 Shares. I have a major crush on the ER doctor where I sometimes go for care. How do I fix this ? I am 22 years old I have a crush on my chiropractor. reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): A 4, 8 and 22 each saw 8 drivers infected in the same 6-month period. I have a slight variation on the above question - what if your crush is on your fathers doctor, and you are the one responsible for his care. I have this huge crush on my Doctor. I have this humonnnnnngous crush on my doctor. Then you have to be extra nice to all the doctors so it's not so obvious that your so nice to your crush doctor. Soon, he started flirting with me, and I followed the lead. Worst case scenario, if he says yes and he realises it's because you are interested in him, then he'll just be flattered. Last year I went to a new doctor (gp). reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): A Edit: Thanks for the extra info! reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): A I met this wonderful man at physical therapy, whom I noticed from the beginning was attracted to me. My doctor is maybe 34. I visited his linked he is so interesting and we have common hobbies and sports ! "Tell a girlfriend, that way you can both laugh about it," … A good relationship, but no financial stability? I am single, I have no idea about him. My marriage is not all that satisfying these days but divorce is not an option, so I am finding myself in a constant fantasyland with my doctor! so it looks like i don't have a chance anyway. I can’t accept that people like me. Once, I had to go to an oral surgeon and he was so cute the nurses and hygentists called him "Dr. That being said, I cannot get him out of my head. I definitely have a little crush on him. How can I do it without scaring him ? Excuse my english, i live in europe. I can’t look at him straight in the face! We get along really well and have some pretty in … McDreamy." reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): A The first time I ever met him, I was in a relationship but I'm single now. 79 or No. A Or, is it just me? He is very kind, caring and smart. I'm happily married and have a child. The problem is he is my physical therapist. Add your answer to this question! female Don't have an account? I feel like a teenager for having a crush like that. I would love actually to go out with him. I’ve been looking at his social media accounts and found out that he’s single. I am a 37 year old married woman, 2 kids, and I think I have a very serious crush on my internist. Why is that? ? Not sure how to subtly/not so subtly know that I am interested. But how can i make this doc go away from my mind. 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He has been reprimanded once before for dating a patient, so I know he's not against that kind of thing, but I believe he has a girlfriend now (whether it's the patient he was reprimanded for dating or someone else entirely, I don't know.) flirt with him in the appointments. I try to keep this in mind when I get a sense a student may have a crush on me. (as if I'd even have a chance.) did he flirt with me. I have a gi who I don't exactly have a crush on but I get along with, the surgeon I definitely have a crush on, and the assistant surgeon who examined my stoma suspecting a parastomal hernia in the ER I definitely fell in love with. We have all had crushes on people that are just never going to feel the same. It's often really an attraction to the role. reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): A Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? I visited his linked he is so interesting and we have common hobbies and sports ! Help, someone! I want to give him a hint but I don't know how. I'm really clueless I've never initiated anything with men. Tweet. However, due to the fact that he is my doctor, if he was interested I don't think he would make the move. reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): A I Have a Crush on My Doctor Is it because they're working to save my life, or because they've seen me naked? It's normal to develop an innocent crush on your doctor, says Dehn. it's flirting ? I am no love expert and haven't really experienced love yet so I am not too sure. Follow. 49 bus routes The Nos. This is just it: I have a mad crush on my doctor. He is so welcoming and sees me about epilepsy. I have a crush on my surgeon who is married and have kids. I have a crush on my doctor. Should I care if a girl I like lost her virginity to someone else? Then your co-workers name 6 other doctors that they think you have a crush on! when all the medical care is finished and you are no longer (medically!) Patients Tell All: I Have A Crush On My Doctor. Had not seen him in a few months. I have a feeling that he likes me very much.I get that vibe.He helped me to cure something I suffered for 5 years.I feel so guilty because I have a big crush on him.I like to see him.I told my husband about it.He was fine at the begging. I have a crush on my doctor? female What should you do if you are just NOT getting over someone. On your next appointment just make small talk with him, then ask him "do you have a girlfriend?". but sometimes it feels like we have a bit of a connection. Join the community to continue the conversation today. It is a small surgery, local anaesthesia. He is my primary care physician..i am in my late twenties and he is in his mid forties.. i am married.. and he think he is also.. I got a new OB/GYN in late January. Well, they are only 2 dates ah sorry appointments ! Some reasons you might feel the crush is that he listens to you and is caring and also that he's an authority figure. I can't start anything in life since my ex girlfriend broke up with me. My surgeon is a very attractive (and very gay) man. I had one consultation appointment, one visit to do the surgery and the third and probably final is next week. I think he’s really cute and nice, an awesome singer and photographer. My boyfriends wants a threesome but I don't. It's been over a year? Crushes on doctors are common. I have a crush on my surgeon and i think it is mutual. reader, tth76  +, writes (18 June 2010): A He touches me alot, smiles at me, hugs me....he's really hot. Please help me ! This is my first post. I only have one more visit with him. male I've spent the better part of an hour searching the web for anything remotely close to what I've experienced. Anonymous. I had one consultation appointment, one visit to do the surgery and the third and probably final is next week. 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